Sunday, July 26, 2009
Dilemma

Last Fri, I went out with my ex colleagues and had our dinner at Harbour Front Dragon Gate Restaurant.. It was enjoyable talking to them.. Though not all turn up but we were having a good time.. Time flies when we are happy..weird isn't it.. We can practically talk about everything, vulgars one, sexy ones, gossips one and serious ones.. Its kinda release my mind & stress for that 3 hours......
Below is a photo of just few of us.. Haha.. no young ladies, all "Lao Cha Bos".. See below..




Anyway, yesterday I went to Toa Payoh Dr Koh's clinic for a 2nd opinion.. My appt was at 12.45 but I only get to see him at 3 He had advise me not to do the laparascopy at all. He see my gynae's u/sound result, to him, that is not very serious to do this opt. Reason being there was no cysts, no fibroids. Is only the ovary that looks a little swelling and of cos there are lots of eggs in the womb area? Sigh.. Dr Koh says if I do the surgery just to get rid of my pains and eggs, why not I take contraceptive pills.. Yasmin. This pill has got almost no side effects.. In fact not only will not gain weight, it helps to beautify one's skin and make you look younger and it will not cause any infertility. If you want pregnancy, just stop the pill, and you will be pregnant almost immediately so long as you are a healthy person.

Doc says even if I do the surgery, the problem will still recurr as the main issue here is menses blood. So long as I have menses blood I will have this problem recurr. That is why he suggested a hormone pill instead. According to him, this will reduce my menses flow and the number of days, which will help ease my pain, discomfort & water retention. However, this pill is only to help not to worsen my condition into developing cysts/cancer, etc.. It does not solve my existing conditions which I mentioned earlier on the clots/eggs in my womb. The only way is to do the surgery. So right now, his opinion is to try this pill for a month, thereafter if I find it ok, buy for another 5 months, and see him in Jan 2010 for review.

So my question here is should I take the pill and see if it helps on my discomfort first. Or should I go to Dr Koh and ask him to do the surgery and thereafter continue to take the pill then review in 6 months time.

Isn't this a 1 bird kill 2 stone solution? Arghhhh........ I am so sick of it.. Why are there so many problems here and only me has this problem.. Damn Sick of it.. T_T

Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Surgery?

I am in a dilemma. I've been diagnosed with Endometriosis & Adenomyosis which gives me pain & cramps during my menses. It has blood clots in my uterus, etc? sigh.. anyway it is not something that is good. Doc advised to go for a Laparascopy which is a key hole surgery to correct this problem.

Prior to this surgery, I will need to fast at least 6hrs & given something to drink to clear my bowels. ThereafterI'll be on drip & fluids during surgery. The anesthesist will then give me a mask to breathe into that will make me go to sleep.

The surgeon will make a small 1-1.5cm cut inside my naval & the laparoscope will be introduced. Co2 will be put into my abdomen thru a special instrument inserted into the navel and a gas help to distend the abdomen making it easier for the surgeon to see the internal organs. Gas will be release at the end of surgery. Then 2 or 3 small 1/2 cm cuts made into my abdoment to put other instruments to be able to perform the surgery. I will then be transferred into another room after an hour.

I may experience nausea and pain but still I will be on drip which maybe given injectable medication. This is a day surgery, I may allowed to go back after at least 4-6 hours of rest depending on surgeon's decision. Some people may stay for a nite.

After seeing these procedures really hold me back.

I am allowed to claim office ins with up to S$15K, but I have existing conditions which has never been declared to my office which then hold me back into doing this operation. What if I can't claim? Where do I in the world pool out the money? But when I ask the gynae, he say my existing disease has got no relations with this conditions at all.. Becos this is quite common found in women nowadays.. And he assured me that there are cases where patients are also claiming insurance has claimed in FULL.. Everyone tells me not to drag, go ahead and do since Doc already explained so clearly..

I ask the gynae how big are the chances of relapsing, he say less than 5%. So now what should I do? Can anyone give me advice? I really can't make up my mind.. How?
I feel so sad.. why do I always have this kind of problem where I just can't simply be let off. something must happen to me.. WHY? so sick of it.. T_T

I AM STRESSED...... IN MY HEALTH? MY WORK? MONEY........ T_T

Monday, July 13, 2009
Results

Drums rolling.... rollllllllll.....

After a careful & fair draw by my hubby, The invitation to my house is.... CHRISTMAS!!!(confirm no cheating)

Therefore SCG members, please remember the date is on the 19.12.09 (Sat).. For those who are coming, kindly share and buy a X'mas Log Cake... Each of you has to bring a present range from $10-$20..(something that is useful)

Timing wise will advise later.. Either in the noon or evening... whichever you guys prefer...(any suggestions??)

so see you guys on that day... ^^v

Saturday, July 11, 2009
Boy Over Flowers (Korean F4)

Hey Guys, have anyone of you watch "Boys Over Flower"? I am so mesmerized by their handsome looks.. Guess what, Lee Min Ho's birthday is one day after me.. and my Favourite "Ji Hoo" is also a Gemini.. Oh My.. I just love them so much.. Muacks Muacks... Below are their handsome pics.. Enjoy... wakakaka ^^v

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Name: 이민호 / Lee Min Ho
(Goo Joon Pyo)- Boy Over Flowers
Profession: Actor
Birthdate: 1987-Jun-22
Height: 185cm
Star sign: Cancer
Blood type: A







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Name: 김현중 / Kim Hyun Joong (Gim Hyeon Jung)
(Yoon Ji Hoo)- Boy Over Flowers
Profession: Actor, singer
Birthdate: 1986-Jun-6
Birthplace: Seoul, South Korea
Height: 180cm
Weight: 68kg
Blood type: B
Star sign: Gemini






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Name: 구혜선 / Koo Hye Sun (Gu Hye Seon)
(Geum Jan Di)-Boy Over Flowers
Profession: Actress and singer
Birthdate: 1984-Nov-09
Birthplace: Seoul, South Korea
Height: 163cm
Weight: 42kg
Star sign: Scorpio
Blood type: A






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Name: 김범 / Kim Bum
Real Name: 김상범 / Kim Sang Bum
(So Yi Jung)- Boy Over Flowers
Profession: Actor
Birthdate: 1989-Jul-07
Height: 181cm
Weight: 63kg
Star sign: Cancer






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Name: 김준 / Kim Joon (Kim Jun)
Real name: 김형준 / Kim Hyung Joon (Kim Hyeong Jun
(Song Woo Bin)- Boy Over Flowers
Profession: Singer and actor
Birthdate: 1984-Feb-03
Height: 183cm
Weight: 64kg
Star sign: Aquarius
Blood type: O





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Name: 김소은 / Kim So Eun
(Chu Ga Eul)- Boy Over Flowers
Profession: Actress
Birthdate: 1989-Sep-06
Star sign: Virgo
Blood type: O